Genesis

The intent of this question is to understand that we influence positively and negatively the faithfulness of our families and others. As students answer this look for elements of positive and negative actions that influence the spiritual faithfulness of Judah, Tamar and others. Also note that even with their weaknesses, God chose to continue His faithfulness through the lineage of those involved. God does not tolerate unfaithfulness but does continue to work His will through us despite our unfaithfulness at times. He takes a long view and offers grace despite our mistakes and weaknesses.

God has entrusted the rearing and teaching of children specifically to parents. This has always been His plan. Each parent has unique gifts and abilities to do so in unique ways with the ultimate purpose of guiding and guarding their souls. We cannot abdicate this to others nor ignore our responsibilities without dire consequences both in this life and for eternity.

There is no absolute solution to recovering our influence once it's weakened or lost. We must make the effort, however. We can begin by making a personal commitment to bring our own lives into line with God's will. From there, by example and direct actions we begin to consistently practice God's will. Whether we directly teach or enlist the help of others (and perhaps we should involve others), we can begin to share God's word with our children. With younger children we can perhaps bring this about more easily. This underscores the importance of beginning early and maintaining our efforts. With older or adult children, we can speak with them and share our desire to renew our relationship with God and encourage them to do the same.

Seek input from those willing to share personal perspectives on this.

This is a very difficult thing to do but should be done none-the-less. Constant prayer, consistent example, patience and love are all part of the effort to establish an environment where conversion or repentance can occur. Don't give up. Believe that you are influencing for good. God works on our hearts to soften them but sometimes this process takes time.

God knows the unique abilities and opportunities we have. He doesn't force our compliance but always uses us as we seek opportunities to serve. The four women mentioned in this series of events show that God can and will use anyone, no matter their previous life situation if they will allow it. God has an eternal view and no action by man or Satan can defeat it. A person may be lost, but God's plan continues. These four women show how a person can be influenced for good. God takes us as we are and brings us to where he wants us to be.

We see in this series of events and many others in scripture how God continues in His faithfulness. This should be an encouragement for us to do the same. When we live as God intends then our influence results in good for everyone involved. More to the point, it results in spiritual growth as we continue to be steadfast (James 1:2-4).