A Father's Love

In the story of the prodigal son, we see the intimate, human ways that God, our Father, loves us. Ways that we as humans can understand and relate to ─ ways that a father loves a son.
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11And He said, "A man had two sons. 12The younger of them said to his father, 'Father, give me the share of the estate that falls to me.' So he divided his wealth between them. 13And not many days later, the younger son gathered everything together and went on a journey into a distant country, and there he squandered his estate with loose living. 14Now when he had spent everything, a severe famine occurred in that country, and he began to be impoverished. 15So he went and hired himself out to one of the citizens of that country, and he sent him into his fields to feed swine. 16And he would have gladly filled his stomach with the pods that the swine were eating, and no one was giving anything to him. 17But when he came to his senses, he said, 'How many of my father's hired men have more than enough bread, but I am dying here with hunger! 18I will get up and go to my father, and will say to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in your sight; 19I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me as one of your hired men."' 20So he got up and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion for him, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. 21And the son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight; I am no longer worthy to be called your son.' 22But the father said to his slaves, 'Quickly bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet; 23and bring the fattened calf, kill it, and let us eat and celebrate; 24for this son of mine was dead and has come to life again; he was lost and has been found.' And they began to celebrate.

25"Now his older son was in the field, and when he came and approached the house, he heard music and dancing. 26And he summoned one of the servants and began inquiring what these things could be. 27And he said to him, 'Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has received him back safe and sound.' 28But he became angry and was not willing to go in; and his father came out and began pleading with him. 29But he answered and said to his father, 'Look! For so many years I have been serving you and I have never neglected a command of yours; and yet you have never given me a young goat, so that I might celebrate with my friends; 30but when this son of yours came, who has devoured your wealth with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him.' 31And he said to him, 'Son, you have always been with me, and all that is mine is yours. 32But we had to celebrate and rejoice, for this brother of yours was dead and has begun to live, and was lost and has been found.'"
- Luke 15:11-32

The parable of the Prodigal Son is, among other things, a story about how God shows His love in ways we can relate to as human beings. You see God loves us in big ways, ways that are evident but hard to really relate to as humans. For example:

  • The sun in the sky that provides for so many of our needs is a big way that He shows His love.
  • The way that He has ordered history to provide a Savior to die for our sins ─ this is another big proof of His concern for us.

There is no doubt that these and other actions on God's part demonstrate His great love for each on of us. The problem of course is that none of us have the power to create a star or manipulate history and so it's difficult for us to fully appreciate God's big ways to love us. In the story of the Prodigal son, however we see the intimate, human ways that God, our Father, loves us. Ways that we as humans can understand and relate to ─ ways that a father loves a son.

How The Father Loves Us

When we review this parable we see three ways that this father showed his love for his son; by extension, three ways that God show His love for us:

1. He Let Him Go

It was customary in those days for the eldest son to not only receive a double portion of his father's inheritance but to be the first one to do so. It was also customary to wait until the father died or the father chose to parcel out his wealth to his children. This child didn't wait his turn or wait until the father decided to give ─ he demanded his portion right away and we see that the dad, without a word, have him his portion and let him go.

  • Against wise counsel
  • Without manipulation
  • No strings attached

When the son was old enough to make his own decision (foolish as it was) the father let him make it ─ he loved him enough to let go. God, our Father, is like this. He lets us go too. We are free to disobey Him if we want. We can reject and abandon the Church. We can ignore all the wiles counsel of His word and promptings of His Holy Spirit and go our own way if we want to.

Some think that God should throw a thunderbolt to stop us - they think this would be love. But love means leaving the door open, not locking it into a prison. God loves man enough to allow him to be free; loves man enough to risk rejection in order to gain true faithfulness and love in return.

He doesn't make the mistake that some fathers make in confusing "control" with compassion. God loves enough to deny self and allow His children to choose the way they live and live the way they choose. But like the father in the parable, God's love doesn't end with a "goodbye."

2. He Waits for a Return

In the parable it says that the father saw his son returning while he was still a long way off. He wasn't barricaded behind closed doors. He didn't have the locks changed as soon as the son left.

He was expectant and made himself available at the first glimpse of the son's return.

God loves us like that, He waits expectantly for our return, and He makes Himself visible all the while. Everywhere there are signs of God's presence and His love if we only but see:

  • The beauty and love demonstrated by His creation that shelters and feeds us.
  • The will and conscience that we posses continually attest to man's ability given by the Father - freedom to choose.

The Bible that speaks of God's love and provides assurance and guidance for a good life here and an eternal life with God in heaven. These are all signs of God's love, reminders of His concern for us, no matter where we go. The father in the parable had great faith.

At one point he said to his older son that the younger son had been dead, but now was alive. This was a fair assessment of the younger son's condition - he was gone, he was unfaithful, he was destitute - he was dead to his God, dead to his family, dead to his people. But the father waited for this dead son's return, such is the foolishness of fathers who love their children - they hope even against hope to receive them back from the dead.

God's love is like this in that while we sin, while we ignore Him, while we harm ourselves, while we mock Him and all that He has done to show us His love.

He plans for and works each day to win us back and wait anxiously to see us from far off returning to Him.

  1. Lets us go
  2. Waits for us

And when we do return, God displays His greatest show of love.

3. He Restores Us

It's one thing to take back an erring child, it's quite another to restore an erring child. What the son wanted was to be taken back. Given food and shelter. Earning his keep through proper and expected behavior.

It's what he deserved, better than what he deserved.

What he was asking for was to live under new rules, under self-imposed law. What his father gave him was restoration and mercy. The father's gift showed how the son was restored:

  • He greeted him with kisses, which showed him his love and affection.
  • He felt compassion, which told the son that he understood his pain and the effort that it took to come back.
  • He put the "best" robe, which signifies position - the long robes worn by nobles.

The ring is a mark of sonship, belonging. The father took him back as his son, not as a slave. The sandals signified that he was not that he was not to be treated as a slave (slaves went barefoot). The fattened calf and celebration was a precious gift as well. The father gave his son the right to laugh again, the right to experience joy because with forgiveness comes restoration and with restoration comes joy.

The father restored his son back to sonship again with all of its rights and privileges. He even defended him to his older brother who was jealous of his father's goodness and mercy - he would have preferred some "legal" arrangement.

Well God, our Father in heaven is this type of Father.

When we return to Him He doesn't give us what we deserve or what we've earned - He restores us completely as sons and daughters and as sons and daughters we have:

  • No More Sin (He forgave us) - Act 2:38
  • No More Shame (He covers us with Christ) - Galatians 3:26
  • No More Condemnation (Doesn't accuse us and doesn't allow anyone to accuse us) - Romans 8:1
  • No Restitution to be Made (The Cross does this) - Romans 4-5
  • No More Sadness (Hope of Heaven - "Rejoice Always") - I Thessalonians 5:16

In addition to this, God our Father defends us against the constant charges of Satan that we are unworthy, by keeping the blood of Christ and the prayers of the Holy Spirit constantly at the throne of mercy on our behalf - defending and justifying us.

When the Heavenly Father restores us, He restored us to our heavenly position as son and daughters of God occupying the right hand of His throne with Jesus.


This parable teaches us many practical lessons for Fathers specifically and parents in general:

  • The purpose of our work with our children is to eventually let them be what they choose to be - even when that doesn't match (even remotely) what we want for them.
  • We can let go but we mustn't give up. We still can have influence and a relationship through prayer, through love and a willingness to monitor and encourage their progress and sympathize with their failure.
  • Fathers don't say, "I told you so", they say, "I love you so". When the prodigals come home - don't make slaves out of them - make sons and daughter out of them once again.

It also demonstrates the very real way that God deals with us, His children, especially His "wild" children with love and patience.

The prodigal son was a "wild child" who finally came home to the arms of a loving and forgiving father - this is the essence and the beauty of this parable and it is relevant in every place and every time where Fathers wait patiently for the return or the "turning around" of their prodigal sons or daughters.

How about you - have you gone far away from your Heavenly Father?

  1. You're only there cause He let you go but remember you got yourself there - He never wanted you to go.
  2. This moment He waits for your return. No matter how far. No matter how bad.

You can always come home to the arms of your loving Heavenly Father, even if your earthly father won't have you. He has your robe of righteousness, your ring of sonship, your sandals of peace and freedom. And the feast is being prepared in heaven where the singing and the rejoicing have already begun.

Won't you come home to your Father this morning by coming forward.

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