Genesis 38:1-30
- Our previous lesson began with the record of the last of the recorders of the book of Genesis, Joseph.
- It chronicled his story from a young proud and ambitious man who was resented and nearly killed by his brothers to the point where he was sold into slavery in Egypt as a result of their hatred for him.
- We saw how he was blessed by God with spiritual gifts and through their misuse was separated from his brothers.
- This will set the stage for the final episode in the book of Genesis and that will be the setting of the children of Israel (Jacob) in the land of Egypt where they will be enslaved.
- The next book, Exodus, will be the story of God's deliverance of these people to the promised land.
*But first we take a small side detour as the narrative shifts from Joseph for one chapter and gives us a glimpse into the life of the brother through whom the Messiah would come.
I. Story of Judah - 38:1
vs. 1-5 (READ)
- After the incident with Joseph, Judah decides to leave the family compound and strike out on his own.
- He looks for and finds a wife without consulting God or his father Jacob.
- The wife he takes is a Canaanite woman who was a pagan and as we see by the actions of his sons, probably never converted to the worship of Jehovah.
- They had three sons:
o Er - watcher, named by Judah
o Onan - strong, named by mother
o Shelah - uncertain, also named by mother
- The significance of the mother naming the 2 last children is that this suggests a tilting of influence in the home towards the mother since it was normally the father who gave the names. (Same with Jacob whose wives named the children and had tremendous influence in the homes and over Jacob.)
vs. 6-11 (READ)
- Although Judah chose his own wife without help from God or Jacob, he seems to recognize the folly of this course and wants to secure a better arrangement for his own son.
- We know nothing of Tamar (means to be erect, to stand straight, a palm tree) but her name and the fact that Judah specifically chose her suggests that in the pagan environment she was a woman of principle and strength.
- We see by the fact that Er is a wicked man that the mother's pagan influence seemed to rub off on him.
o The messianic line was to come through Judah and so God destroyed Er before he could be part of that genealogy (the fact that he didn't destroy Tamar speaks on her behalf).
- Judah then presses on to Onan, the brother, the responsibility to carry on his elder brothers' lineage by marrying his widow.
o This was called Levirate regulation (from a Latin word Levir meaning brother in law).
o An ancient custom to protect land and property rights within families. If a brother died without children, the nearest relative would marry the widow and the first male child would belong, as far as succession rights were concerned, to the dead relative and carry his name. Other children would legally belong to the new father.
- Onan has seen the result of his brothers' wickedness so he goes along with this but in the end refuses to produce children for his dead brother (he is afraid that he will have to share some of his property with his brother's child).
- He has intercourse but interrupts conception; for this rebellion God slays him as well.
o The term ONANISM was after used to refer to masturbation and this passage was often used to show that this practice was a sin.
o Of course this passage is about obedience to God and the punishment that disobedience brings.
o The Bible is silent about the sexual issues of masturbation, birth control or sexual practice within marriage.
o The principles that guide us in these include fidelity (Heb 13:4); mutual respect and cooperation (I Cor 7:3-7); and Christian decency (I Thess 4:4).
o It's important that when we try to prove a point using the Bible, we make the point that the Bible makes - not the point we want to make using the Bible incorrectly and out of context.
vs. 11-12 (READ)
- Tamar lived with Judah and his sons but to avoid further trouble he sends her back to her father.
o He promises to send his youngest to marry her when old enough but was probably afraid to do so considering what had happened to his other sons.
- In the meantime his own wife dies and after a time of mourning he goes to the shearing of sheep with his friends.
o Suggests he may not have been in terrible grief because shearing time was usually accompanied by a festival and Judah planned to take in the festivities along with his friends.
vs. 13-19 (READ)
- The problem for Tamar was that Judah had originally contracted for her to be in his family in order to continue the line.
- She had been willing, had perhaps begun to worship the God of Judah but was denied her rightful place.
- Her plan was to trick her father in law into fulfilling her plan to carry on the family line:
o May have less to do with a desire to carry on the blessing than a fear of being discarded altogether.
o She was twice widowed with God killing her husbands and denied the third - her prospects were grim.
o She may have also felt a right to carry the line despite the method.
- Her disguise is as a "temple prostitute" because later on she is referred to as a "separated one" which was the term for temple prostitute rather than a common prostitute.
o Temple prostitution was a respectable occupation in Canaanite society with many of the women in the village taking turns serving at the temple as their way of making an offering to their own god or goddess.
o This doesn't excuse the practice but gives insight into Tamar's thinking that in her own mind what she was doing was not for lust or money and part of her cultural practices.
- Judah, of course, was a different story.
o He knew better concerning foreign gods, prostitution and fornication.
o Again he didn't seek God or his father to help him find a new wife.
o He allowed the passions stirred by the festival activities and his loneliness to make him vulnerable to this type of situation.
- Their union produces a child and Judah leaves some of his personal belongings as a promise that he will pay her later for his services.
- The fact that she returns home confirms that her actions were not motivated by greed or lust but rather by desperation.
o Weak faith will drive people to do foolish and desperate things rather than trust God for help.
vs. 20-23 (READ)
- Despite his weakness, Judah is a man of his word and wants to fulfill his agreement.
- He may be embarrassed about his actions so he sends his friend to find Tamar but he does not find her.
o "Harlot" is the word for temple prostitute.
vs. 24-26 (READ)
- Judah is indignant at the news of her pregnancy and pronounces judgment:
o She was still under his authority
o Technically engaged to his son
o Widow of his other two sons
o Disgraced his family by bringing another man's child into his own family.
- He may have been secretly happy of disposing of her and avoiding the dilemma of his third son having to opt out of marrying her and the problems this would cause with her family. But he finds out the truth!
- Judah shows some of the character that God saw in him in order to grant to him the honor of being the line through which the Messiah would come:
o He tells the truth about his involvement with her instead of denial.
o He confesses the true sin (not giving her his third son which he was dutifully legally bound to do).
o He also absolves her of blame and guilt by acknowledging that she was righteous and he was not.
§ Her methods were deceptive but she was morally right in claiming what rightfully belonged to her.
§ He acknowledges that it was his actions that pressured her to act in the way she did.
o He does the right thing by not taking her sexually anymore but acknowledging her children as his own for their proper inheritance and name - as the law demanded.
vs. 27-30 (READ)
- A short summary describing her twins and the unusual parallel between them and Jacob and Esau's struggle in generations past.
- We know that both brothers and Shelah, Judah's remaining son married and had large families.
- Later in the genealogies, the second child, Pharoz who appeared second but came out first was the one who was the ancestor of David and through whom came the Christ.
- This ends a sidelight chapter meant to show how Judah fathered the child that ultimately linked him to the birth of the Christ.
*In our next lesson we again pick up the story of Joseph and his time in Egypt which will bring us to the close of this first book of the Bible.
Lessons
- Children are influenced by both parents
- Judah was shortsighted and underestimated the influence that his wife would have on his family.
- The case for marrying a Christian becomes very important especially when it comes to children.
- Unfortunately young people don't see that far ahead, they only consider the existing relationship, and not the relationships that will exist in the future.
*Why it's important not only to encourage them to marry Christians but in the event that they don't, parents need to help provide Christian influence in their grandchildren's lives missing because of the disbelief of one of the parents (or both).
-Note that Jacob's name is not mentioned here at all.
- God can cause all things to work for good
- I mentioned this last week but it bears repeating.
o God chose Judah to carry the line
o His poor judgment and weakness
o His wicked, rebellious sons
o His pagan wife
o Tamar's helplessness and deceptive plan
- And yet God managed to cause all of these negative things to work together to achieve His goals.
o The wicked will still be judged
o The weak will still suffer the consequences of their mistakes
- But God's plan will not be thwarted, even by our own poor judgment and mistakes.
- This should give us confidence to go ahead when we're not sure; to persevere even when we make mistakes; to maintain our hope of salvation even when the evidence around us points to the conclusion that we're not going to make it.
*God's plan is to bring the faithful to heaven and He will accomplish that plan no matter what.
- It's not who you are, it's who God makes you
- It's interesting to note that in the genealogy of Jesus only 4 women are mentioned:
o Tamar - a Canaanite who tricked her father in law into sleeping with her.
o Rahab - a prostitute who hid the Jewish spies.
o Ruth - a Moabitess who persuaded Boaz to marry her after sleeping with him while he was drunk.
o Bathsheeba - a Hittite woman who committed adultery with David.
- None were Jews, all came into the Messianic line under dubious circumstances but all were transformed by their contact with the men who believed in God.
o Tamar clung to the promise of Judah to belong to the Israelite nation through marriage and child bearing.
o Rahab who left prostitution and married Salmon after the Jews captured Jericho.
o Ruth followed her mother in law Naomi and adopted her faith which led her to Boaz and her marriage with him.
o Bathsheeba became the key influence in making sure Solomon became king after David ensuring the unity of Israel at that time.
- God took these women who were pagans and because of their conversion and faith used them in a mighty way to preserve the lineage through which Jesus came.
*There is hope for those who have unbelieving partners, there is hope for those who have questionable backgrounds because God can make valuable servants out of anyone regardless of their part and give everyone a glorious future - these women are proof of this.