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Iron Love

Mon, 19 Dec 2011 20:28:16 -0800

She's ironed my shirts now for twenty years. It's not a big thing, but each time I go to my closet and see them neatly pressed and hung in a row I remember the early years.

Our first months of marriage were a blur of breathless happiness and adjustment to a life for two. In an effort to please me, she took over the mundane task that my mother had performed for my father and I as long as I could remember. The smell of starch on collars and the steady motion of the iron over crisp white cotton were now repeated in my own kitchen as Lise performed this household ritual for our family.

"It would be so much easier to have the shirts dry cleaned," I once said to her. I don't remember her exact reply but it had to do with the fact that the task helped her to remain part of me, even when I wasn't in the house. That ironing the wrinkles and handling the shirts in preparing them for wear somehow covered me with her love, a love that everyone could see, a love that I could wear as a protection from that sometimes-harsh world away from home.

I watch my sons and daughters iron their own garments now. No lessons in this art were ever given. Just a quiet thing they all do, stitched into their memory through their mother's silent devotion, a devotion to loving service that will hopefully fill and bless their own homes one day.

Humble Beginning

Mon, 19 Dec 2011 20:20:58 -0800

It is interesting to note that Judah, the man from whose human lineage Jesus would eventually come, was born under questionable circumstances. His mother, Leah, was given by trickery in marriage as a substitute for her sister, Rachel. She conceived, but not in love, and struggled with her sister for the affections of their common husband.

Aside from the issue of polygamy which was allowed in those days. Judah was not born into the greatest of circumstances. However, in God's plan he became the father of kings and ultimately the human source for Jesus Himself. There was some lessons for us if we care to see them:

It's not where you start, it's where you finish that counts. Judah did not have an ideal beginning, but in the end, his life produced a savior. This teaches us that we sometimes need to hold all judgment until the end of a matter to really see the true value of someone or something.
God can make something great out of something invisible. The awesome creation came into being from things too small to see with the naked eye (Heb. 11:3). Imagine what God can do with your humble beginnings if you let Him?
There is always a bigger plan. Our lives fit into a larger context and whether they are great or small, they are always played out against God's bigger plan. We need to keep this in mind before we "give up" or "puff up".

In the end, God draws us to the belief and love of Christ. Until we do so, we've not found the sure course for our lives, regardless of our beginnings.

Divine Justice

Mon, 19 Dec 2011 20:09:44 -0800

As the execution of Oklahoma City bomber, Timothy McVeigh, approaches there will surely be a rise in the debate over the issue of the death penalty. Unfortunately, both sides often talk, over each others' heads and the discussion rarely moves toward any kind of resolution.

Those who oppose the death penalty often cite religious convictions as the reason for their stand. Death penalty advocates, on the other hand, rely on the same God and the same source (the Bible) to defend its use. How can two contradicting views find support from the same God they claim to serve and the same book they claim to believe?

I think the answer lies in the fact that each group relies on only part of what the Bible says about this issue. Yes, the Bible defends the sacredness of life (Ex. 20:13, "Thou shalt not murder") as well as provides for the death penalty in certain cases where this command is broken (Gen. 9:6; Rom. 13:1-4).

One scripture not often mentioned however, is Ex. 23:7, where God provides the balance between these opposing views.

"Keep far from a false charge, and do not kill the innocent or the righteous, for I will acquit the guilty" Ex. 23:7.

Note that both the death penalty and the prohibition against it are laid out. Yes, the death penalty is permitted, but only for those whose guilt can be determined beyond doubt.

I applaud the recent halt to executions in certain states because it was found that too many mistakes were being made in determining guilt. I applaud it because it maintained society's "God given" right to protect itself against murderers but not at the expense of ending an innocent life.

The sad truth is that there will always be the criminal taking of life. When considering this, however, we should not make the mistake of promoting the death penalty as a method of deterrence rather than one of "divine justice."

Our goal is not to remove what God has put into place for justice's sake. Our goal is to make absolutely sure that justice is carried out fairly in every case. In the end, God's justice will demand a reckoning from the accused as well as the ones carrying out the justice.

Complexity or Courage?

Mon, 19 Dec 2011 19:56:19 -0800

President bush struck a compromise recently in his decision over stem cell research. He had three Federal government funding options:

To allow the unlimited production of embryos in order to harvest their stem cells for research purposes.
To ban all stem cell research thus eliminating the need to create embryos.
To permit research only on the stem "lines" (stem cells already harvested from discarded embryos) which may be cultivated fro tissue and organ production.

Mr. Bush chose the third option reasoning that since the embryos which produced the stem lines have already been destroyed, we might as well get some use out of the valuable harvest they yielded.

Of course, neither side of the debate was happy. Most scientists who lobbied for unlimited production of embryos to fuel their work charged that this decision would hamper their progress in developing tissue and organ replacement research. The pro-life faction, on the other hand, argued that even using the stem cells from an embryo created and then destroyed for this purpose was morally repugnant and a step in the wrong direction.

The media weighed in to the fray by declaring that this issue was too complex for easy decisions and it is complex but the moral issue is not. Simply stated, the crux of the matter is this: Does the end justify the means? In suffering for one group of people justify the killing of another? In other words, do individuals who are suffering have a legitimate right to create and then deny individual life to another so they can extend their own? In still other words, can the strong take from the weak simply because they need or they can?

It doesn't require great intellect to understand this moral question but it does require courage.

Common Vs. Holy

Mon, 19 Dec 2011 19:13:45 -0800

"...they shall teach my people the difference between the holy and the profane..." Eze. 44:23.

In this passage the prophet, Ezekiel, outlines the duties of the newly appointed priests and he says that one of their tasks was to teach the people the difference between what is holy and what is common; what is clean and unclean.

Some of this instruction was to be ethical in nature (right or wrong; moral vs. immoral). Some teaching, however, was to show people that even though some things or practices were not immoral or ethically wrong - they were unsuitable in the context of serving or worshipping God.

This task of discerning what is holy from what is common has fallen on hard times of late. Ministers are loathe to label anything as unsuitable when it comes to worship or ministry lest they be branded as being backwards or legalistic in our increasingly populist brotherhood.

Paul the Apostle said that "not all things are expedient." He voiced the Spirit's warning that we still have to choose carefully what we permit lest we practice those things that may well be mortal but fail nevertheless in passing spiritual muster when making an offering of service or worship to God.

The Levitical priests of Ezekiel's time forever lost their privilege to offer sacrifice and minister in the holiest place to another family because of their careless attitude. We should heed the old prophet's warning lest we fall into the same trap of nonchalance regarding God's affairs.

Breaking Me Softly

Sat, 17 Dec 2011 20:30:16 -0800

Recently, as I reviewed my day in prayer, the Lord revealed a sinful condition in my soul. At first I was ashamed to admit it, but as I accepted the truth, I realized that God's admonition is a wonderful thing because it yields so many benefits. For example:

1. Admonition Brings Greater Self-Awareness.

Much of the time we wander around with a false notion of ourselves cloaked in pride or denial. When our sins are revealed, a truer picture finally emerges.

2. Admonition Brings Greater Safety.

Although the light of truth is painful at first, eventually it provides protection against repeating soul-killing activities that were once hidden in the darkness of our disobedience. We can always slink back into the shadows but, if we want to, the Lord can help us to avoid the trap in the future.

3. Admonition Bring Greater Joy.

The less sin in my life, the more room I have for Jesus. In the end, the process of unmasking my sinful self produces the calm assurance that God is still working in my life, despite its ugliness - Oh, what joy!

The next time you stumble into the realization that you have just sinned, don't run away. Let the Lord break its hold over you and lead you into the marvelous light of His love.

Born Again Virgins

Sat, 17 Dec 2011 20:22:38 -0800

Recently I heard a report on the radio about a woman who was starting a movement where people were once again choosing to remain celibate before marriage. She explained to the interviewer that reclaiming their sexuality in this way was an effort to produce a sexual rebirth and renewal.

I don't want to be a spoiler here but the idea has both good and bad things going for it. First, the good. When people choose to bring their sexual conduct in line with God's plan (whether they acknowledge Him or not) they have made a good move. There can only be beneficial results when people make an effort to control themselves and avoid casual sexual contact outside the security and framework of marriage.

On the negative side however, there is the misunderstanding of the issue of "rebirth." To deny oneself sexual activity until a suitable partner and marriage come along is certainly wise and closer to the ideal that God has set forth for this area of life. However, this change only effects our lifestyle, not the condition of our souls.

Only spiritual rebirth (the kind Jesus creates in us) renews the whole person - mind, body, and spirit. So sure, go ahead, renew your efforts at sexual purity and see the great emotional and physical rewards this will bring. But when it comes to being "born again," only a complete burial of the old person in the waters of Christian baptism can make us virginally pure in the eyes of God and the depths of our conscience.

A Full-Time Friend

Sat, 17 Dec 2011 20:12:14 -0800

When people compliment you on your friends, you know your friend is special. Such was the case this week as so many of you noted the kindness and generosity of our friends, Allen and Barbara Arnold, from Oklahoma.

They and their family organized and carried out our move here to San Diego. From loading a twenty-six foot truck and driving it while towing our other car in a three vehicle convoy through the worst winter storm in a decade, to unloading our furniture at the church apartment (located on the second floor no less) they did it all!

Friendship has all kinds of quality assurance tests but none greater than the test of time. By this I'm not referring to how long a friendship has lasted (length of friendship is a reward, not a test) no, I mean how much of your time you are willing to invest in your friend, and your common friendship.

This last month Allen has demonstrated that he is definitely a full-time friend because he has made our move his number one "time" commitment. We, of course, are blessed by this because he has helped us make a difficult adjustment to a new home and job. We are also blessed because the binding of our love for one another has been strengthened by his family's sacrifice on our behalf.

We said goodbye as he left to return home on Thursday. Our contact will now be reduced to emails and the occasional call, but our friendship remains a full-time commitment.

A Cup of Water

Sat, 17 Dec 2011 20:04:00 -0800

The wait at the tire shop was going to be a long one so I walked over to the taco shop to get a bottle of water. The young girl at the take-out window informed me that they were all out of water then quickly offered to get me a plastic cup filled with ice water and a straw. She offered it with a smile and refused my attempt to pay.

As I headed back to the garage, the Bible's words concerning "entertaining angels unawares" (Heb. 13:2) or "sharing a cup of water" (Matt. 10:42) echoed in my mind. This girl had not done a kindness to an angel but she did do it for a son of God who will judge the angels (I Cor. 6:3). She did it for someone who could go before the throne of almighty God and pray for her, knowing that she was being presented and advocated by one who had the power to do so. She had done it for one who could make an effort to see that the greatest gift (the Gospel) would somehow find its way into her life one day.

She's forgotten me. The lunch crowd, pay day, new shoes, her boyfriend, school -- that cup of water is long gone from her memory. But I haven't forgotten her and the blessings that I have asked the Lord to bring her will always be waiting -- all for a cup of water.

7 Things That Don't Matter

Sat, 17 Dec 2011 19:54:07 -0800

It doesn't matter what the world thinks of me...

so long as Christ thinks of me.

It doesn't matter what I accomplish...

so long as it has been born of faith in Him.

It doesn't matter what I have...

so long as it is received with thanksgiving in His Name.

It doesn't matter who loves me...

so long as He loves me.

It doesn't matter where I go...

as long as I follow Him.

It doesn't matter how I live...

so long as I live in Him.

It doesn't matter when I die...

so long as He is there...

it doesn't matter.

The Blessings of Brown Bag Christmas

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 22:15:17 -0800

Christmas is a busy time and the last thing we need is one more “job” to do!

But that’s exactly what we’re asking of you with our “Brown Bag Christmas” appeal - to take the time to do one more thing (two if you count decorating the bag). But this extra chore will have important results if you bring your decorated bag full of groceries to church next Sunday, December 22nd (hey, that’s three things!). For example:

You will be providing much needed groceries to those who can’t afford to buy any this year. Matthew 25:35

You will be confessing Christ with your contribution in His name. Matthew 10:32

You will be glorifying God. Matthew 5:16

You will not only be looking out for your own interests but also looking out for the interests of other. Philippians 2:4

You will be functioning in cooperation with the church in this matter. Acts 2:45

You will be building up the reputation of the church in this community. Acts 2:47

You will enjoy the satisfaction that comes from giving instead of receiving. Acts 20:35

You will be storing up treasure in heaven. Matthew 19:21

You will be encouraging other churches with the example of your generosity. 2 Corinthians 9:1-2

You will be honoring God by offering Him the first of many gifts you will give. Proverbs 3:9

With so many blessings attached to this one thing, maybe we should put this errand at the top of our “to do” list this Christmas!

Little Pumpkin

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 22:13:32 -0800

I made my mother laugh. Not just a quiet smile or chuckle, but a stomach cramping, bent over, shriek of laughter that came in waves of delirious joy that caused her to smile and laugh all over again long after the initial surge was gone. This was quite a feat for an 82-year-old woman with stage-one Alzheimer’s disease!

The cause of this spontaneous happiness was a little picture of me that I sent her as a part of a Halloween gift package. It was taken 50 years ago and in it I’m a five-year-old boy in a bow-tie playing my accordion while sporting a wide toothless grin. This long, forgotten photo was placed in a Halloween decorated frame that had been stamped with the words, “L’il Pumpkin.”

This image released a flood of happy memories and my mother, who lives in Montreal, had to call me late at night to tell me how wonderful this small gift made her feel. She couldn’t wait until the next day to call ---- so great was her excitement. Mom said that her joy made her feel young for the moment, more alive somehow, even carefree for the few precious hours that she savored the thoughts and emotions released by that little picture of her only son so far away.

Solomon says that laughter is medicine for the soul (Prov. 15:13). I believe that laughter is a taste of heaven, that’s why it’s so good. How else to explain why the experience of heaven is often described in terms of bliss and joy? (1 Pet. 4:13).

There’s no science for this, but I’m fully convinced that people who don’t laugh, don’t know how to laugh, don’t like to laugh, don’t want to laugh, don’t create laughter...these folks won’t like heaven much. I say this because God commands His people to “rejoice always...” (1 Thess. 5:16) and even established feasts that encouraged His people to spend long periods of time in joyful celebration (i.e., Purim - Esther chapter 9).

There is so much evil and sorrow in this world that can easily distract us but as Christians we always have an eternal reason to smile. Go ahead...make someone smile today, it’ll let heaven shine through.

What Would You Do Differently

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 22:12:10 -0800

Watching people die is always a growth experience. I don’t say this lightly because the trauma for family and friends is real and painful. But if you’re in the medical profession or serve as a hospice worker or minister, the constant passing of people from this life to the next occurs repeatedly in your everyday work and serves more to teach than frighten or depress.

It seems the more I help people go through this terrible step, the more I recognize lessons that are repeated in every case. And no matter that the families and individuals in question are of different cultures, faiths or socio-economic backgrounds --- the same lessons appear. For example, at death everyone seems to regret having focused on the wrong things: too much time cleaning, not enough celebrating; senseless grudges kept too long melt away when the shadow of death occurs; not enough attention given to the kids/the parents/the wife/ the Lord! It’s as if death, or the threat of it, finally forces us to adjust our focus, our priorities, our reality. When there’s little time left we tend to get serious about life --- how sad. How sad that it takes the stopping of someone else’s life to move us to truly begin living our own lives more fully.

If you’re reading this article, I want you to stop reading and think for a moment about what you would do differently if you knew you were going to die in a month. Go ahead... think about it!

You’ll have learned an important lesson and have fewer regrets when the time of death really comes if you put into practice what you’ve just thought about. That’s because you’ll do now what most people only wish they did when it was too late to do it.

Revival at the Flying "J"

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 22:10:13 -0800

She won us over in a minute. We staggered into the truck stop after an 800 mile drive. We were hungry, tired, and in no mood for polite talk. Our waitress had her own problems, having to cover two separate seating sections since she was obviously the only server on the floor. This did not defeat her good humor and attentiveness however.

A quick delivery of our coffee and a knowing look that understood what point we were at on this seemingly endless day revived us somehow. As the food arrived she continued to cheer us with simple things; her smile, small talk with our son, and some motherly advice to, “take your time with the meal,” renewed our will to drive the final 100 miles to the hotel.

We offered a brief prayer of thanks before eating but there was no question who was spiritually superior this day. Our waitress showed us how to truly “witness” without seeming pious. I knew that my grateful & large tip was outweighed by her innate ability to channel God’s love while carrying trays at the Flying “J.”

RU-486 and Reality

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 22:05:33 -0800

In the year 2000, the U.S. government approved the use of the abortion pill RU-486. Abortion rights’ advocates hailed the ruling as an important breakthrough claiming that this pill would cut down on surgically performed abortions and provide an “easier” early-abortion method. Right-to-life groups passionately opposed the measure and petitioned lawmakers to attach restrictions and conditions to its use.

Since this time, Danco Laboratories, the sole distributor of RU-486 in the U.S., has reported fatalities and illnesses related to the pill and there is a movement in Congress to legislate stricter guidelines for its distribution. Even though there are complicated legal and social pressures at work here, let’s keep the following realities concerning RU-486 clearly in view:

Reality #1 - RU-486 causes death.

Whether it’s by surgical means or through a chemically produced reaction (RU-486 causes the embryo to detach from the uterus lining) the end result is the same - a child is killed. Giving a procedure a sanitized name doesn’t change the reality of what is happening and in this case, the death of a person is what happens.

Reality #2 - RU-486 causes more abortions.

This procedure will make abortions easier, cheaper, faster, and more private - all good reasons that will push women to choose this path when faced with an unwanted pregnancy. All this talk about freedom of choice will never change the REAL outcome of this move - women will be hurt when they choose to destroy their babies.

Reality #3 - RU-486 causes judgment.

The big selling point with this new drug is that its effects are minimal thus guarding a women’s privacy. Few, if any people

need to know. Of course we know that in reality, God knows all things (even the secrets of our hearts) and will judge us

accordingly.

The approval and usage of RU-486 in the USA has been touted as a victory for women and reproductive rights. But the victory belongs to Satan who has seduced a portion of this nation into rejoicing over the fact that it will now be easier to kill the unborn - a chilling reality indeed.

Tobacco Statistics

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 22:03:06 -0800

OK. Let’s decide it once and for all. Tobacco use, sinful or not? If it isn’t we’ll leave well enough alone, if it is then all the Christians who use it need to stop.

I suppose I’m not the best one to mount a defense for tobacco use but in all honesty there are only two positive things I can think of to support the use tobacco products. One is the enjoyment experienced by those who use tobacco. The other is the profit made by those who grow, manufacture, market, and distribute this product. Perhaps there are spin off benefits to lawyers and charitable institutions supported by the tobacco industry but any other advantage created by tobacco use is beyond me.

This article is limited to about 250 words so I’ll have to list the negatives in the briefest of terms. Of all the arguments against tobacco use these are the strongest but certainly not the only ones:

1. The pain far outweighs the pleasure.

Roughly every 1.5 seconds, an American dies because of tobacco. Insurmountable medical evidence proves that the 19 identifiable poisons contained in tobacco bring untold harm to the human body. Pleasure is not bad in itself but when what we do for pleasure poses such a great (and unnecessary) threat to our bodies, that pleasure becomes immoral.

2. The profit does not cover the loss.

The profits made by the farmers and others who produce this product do not justify the human misery and financial cost of treating the illnesses it causes. Our nation as a whole would be healthier and more prosperous if this product would be discontinued.

3. Tobacco cannot witness Christ.

The litmus test for Christians in all things is whether or not what we say or do can be used to promote our faith and honor our Lord, Jesus Christ. If the majority of non-Christians agree that tobacco is a curse on society, how can Christians ever use, or worse still, defend its use?

Let’s add it up: Tobacco poisons the body; has negative social value; and is considered evil even by worldly standards - sounds like sin to me! It seems that in the face of such evidence, Christians who persist in the habit have a greater problem with sin that with simple tobacco use. Repent brethren, before you become another tobacco statistic.

Remember Your Enemies

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 22:00:05 -0800

As Memorial Day approaches, the nation honors those in the military past and present who have served and died to protect this nation. This remembrance should also include, to a certain extent, our enemies as well. I’m not saying that we should honor those with whom we’ve gone to war, but as Christians we can surely recognize that our enemies are people created in God’s image and worthy of our prayers. As a matter of fact, in Matthew 5:44, Jesus commanded us to love our enemies and demonstrated this kind of love in His dealings with Judas, the one who betrayed Him. The Apostle John describes how Jesus did this for His enemy Judas. In John 13:26-27, John says that:

1. Jesus Humbled Himself Before Judas.

Jesus washed the feet of Judas along with the twelve. Many times what creates animosity is the need to win or dominate others. This action showed that Jesus’ purpose was to serve not defeat His enemy. This type of attitude provides communication and promotes peace between enemies.

2. Jesus Honored Judas.

Jesus gave Judas a morsel dipped in wine which was a gesture of honor in that society. Secretly, He was acknowledging Judas’ aggression towards Him. Publicly, however, Jesus was showing him honor in order to permit His enemy to save face and make reconciliation easier.

3. Jesus Spoke Gently to Judas.

Even when Judas betrayed Him with a kiss, Jesus merely asked him a simple question without anger or resentment. A soft answer does turn away wrath and we see this later on as Judas’ feelings toward Jesus are changed.

We can’t avoid enemies but we can learn to deal with them as Christians if we do what Jesus did with His own personal enemy, Judas. So let us remember our own heroes as part of our nation’s tribute, but let us not forget our enemies either, because God loves them too.

Can You Hear Me Now?

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:57:31 -0800

Most of us have seen the cellular phone company’s commercial where a man is seen walking around holding a phone to his ear asking the person on the other end of the line, “Can you hear me now?” We can relate to this ad because we have all had this very same experience when, in the middle of a cell phone conversation, we lose contact for a moment. After moving around or waiting awhile, we repeat these words to assure ourselves that our connection has been restored.

I can’t help but think that God sometimes has to utter similar words to us when our connection with Him breaks off from time to time. It usually happens when we wander away from him through the practice of some sin or the loss of our habit of worshiping Him. We break our spiritual connection by fully embracing the world or stop the on-going dialogue with Him through prayer. The result is that He’s still speaking to us (the word, the church, our conscience, etc.) but we’re not hearing Him anymore.

This “disconnect” lasts for awhile until the consequences of our separation begin to appear. Sorrow, guilt, confusion, even physical suffering and set-backs are all different ways that God has of saying, “Can you hear me now?” In our day to day experiences, there is always a sense of relief when our phone contact is renewed and we continue our phone “life” once again. Imagine the joy when we hear the voice of the Lord at the other end of the line again and realize that we were the ones who cut Him off in the first place!

Tongue Trouble

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:55:37 -0800

Ever notice the amount of trouble your tongue gets you into? I think this type of weakness was on Jesus’ mind when He chose Peter to become an apostle. A classic story that typified the problem occurs in Matthew 26:35 where Peter blurts out that no matter what, he will never deny or abandon Jesus.

Of course we know that soon after Jesus was arrested Peter, along with the others, not only ran away but when questioned, cursed and swore that he never met Jesus. In this sad story we learn a few important lessons about dealing with our troubled tongues:

1. DON’T SPEAK BEFORE YOU THINK. Had Peter thought for a moment, he would’ve realized that Jesus wasn’t asking him to go suffer and die. He was only asking him to believe that after His death He would resurrect.

2. DON’T PROMISE WHAT YOU CAN’T DELIVER. Sometimes we have to commit, we have to aim at certain goals. But a wise person will not promise what is not his or what he hasn’t the ability to produce. Better to admit weakness than prove oneself both weak and foolish.

3. LET THE LORD BE ON THE TIP OF YOUR TONGUE AT ALL TIMES. Had Peter said, “By your strength Lord, I will not deny you; If you are willing Lord, I will follow,” Matthew would have written a completely different scenario.

Thankfully tongue trouble isn’t terminal. Peter eventually proclaimed the resurrection and brought the gospel to the Gentiles. We can take comfort in the fact that, like Peter, the Lord can tame our tongues as well, if, like every other thing in our lives, we surrender it to His service.

Speed Bumps on the Road to Heaven

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:54:04 -0800

I once knew a lady who abandoned Christ for golf. She played after work and then began to skip mid-week services to play, and soon was absent on “sunny” Sunday mornings as well. I tried to warn her of the danger signs but eventually she was playing golf on Sundays - rain or shine! A few years later a friend told me that she had asked him if the Bible really was inspired after all. This person is an unfortunate example of someone who ignored the speed bump warning her of the dangerous curve her faith was taking.

We all experience speed bumps along the road of life. They’re placed there to alert us to the things that have the potential of destroying our souls if we don’t pay attention and make the necessary changes.

Sometimes the bump causes the rattling of our consciences as we continue to ignore a bad habit or attitude. At other times it’s the cold realization that God has just taken something away from us because of our disobedience. Regardless of the situation, we know when we’ve just hit a bump. The question is, what to do about it?

Most prudent drivers slow down when they feel a speed bump and are alerted to possible danger. If you’ve been feeling a few bumps in your spiritual life lately, maybe God is trying to give you a “heads-up.” Pay attention and arrive alive.

The Silence of the Lamb

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:48:48 -0800

“Then Pilate took Jesus and had Him flogged” John 19:1. When I try to imagine the reality of these words, I become indignant. What impudence, what arrogance, what monumental ignorance for a godless petty official to rain such humiliation on the Author of Life!

My own sufferings fall so miserably short when I measure the degradation that the Innocent One endured at the hands of this heathen. How small are my wounds compared to His. How immeasurably childish my grievances appear when held up alongside the grotesque aggression visited upon Him.

If there were ashes and a rough shirt to wear in our day, I would put them on to signal my unworthiness and shame for ever having brought a single complaint to His ear. For now, this brief essay will serve to remind me of His silence in suffering --- no, His silence in unjust suffering caused in part by my own offenses.

My prayer is that He forgive me for ever uttering a word in excess of His own when wronged. By His silence I am shamed into quietness, by His stripes I am healed of words spoken in vain.

The Advantage of Adult Conversion

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:44:09 -0800

As a Christian parent, my prayer has always been that my children come to Christ as soon as possible. This they have all done and I am thankful, but as I review my own journey of faith, I recognize that there are certain advantages for those (such as myself) who were converted as adults:

1. Adults know the difference between conversion and indoctrination. When a grown up person comes to Christ, the doctrine serves to change the heart not just the mind.

2. Adults are more appreciative of their salvation. Having experienced the awfulness of sin gives adults that much more joy at the prospect of having them removed by Christ. A newly converted adult is much more aware of what he has in Christ than a young person who has not yet seen the destructive power of sin.

3. Adults usually want to make up for lost time. Young people think they have all the time in the world and tend to put off serious ministry until they are older. Adult converts feel they’ve wasted enough time on the “world” and are eager to use their remaining resources in the Lord’s service.

Of course, there are exceptions to each rule, but I’ve found that despite the “wasted years” adults tend to grow more quickly in Christ than many of their younger brethren in the Lord. Perhaps this is why Jesus chose adults, with all their problems and bad habits, to be His Apostles. Their conversion to Christ and subsequent ministry gives hope to all of us who come to Him in our later years.

They Could Have Been Champions

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:41:03 -0800

So you’re the disputed winners of the Olympic gold medal in pairs’ figure skating from Russia, what do you do? You could hang on to your prize and fight off criticism that your victory is tainted, never really exulting in, or being recognized for, this achievement. Or, you could acknowledge what is plain to even the most uninformed viewer....you didn’t really win, and give the Canadians the gold medal yourselves!

Doing the former will necessitate that you will have to prove yourselves whenever you compete again. Doing the right thing, however, may take your name off of this year’s gold medal list but will indelibly mark them on the hearts of the whole world.

Not many people actually have a shot at true greatness. The Canadian skaters will have their “15 minutes” and then slip back into the obscurity of their sport, an interesting footnote to the ‘02 Games. Ah, but the Russians....what a missed opportunity to rise above the clamor and stand the process on it head! They could have been better than winners, they could have been champions.So you’re the disputed winners of the Olympic gold medal in pairs’ figure skating from Russia, what do you do? You could hang on to your prize and fight off criticism that your victory is tainted, never really exulting in, or being recognized for, this achievement. Or, you could acknowledge what is plain to even the most uninformed viewer....you didn’t really win, and give the Canadians the gold medal yourselves!

For Men Only

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:39:06 -0800

Men don’t share. They don’t look for opportunities to “get together” as men unless it is to watch something. I don’t know if it’s genetic or what but guys will head for the hills if they suspect that some event has been organized just to get them to talk to each other.

Of course the exception to this rule is....food. Men will generally congregate where food is available. This is why the potluck meal was invented - to get men to stick around the church building long enough after services so that their wives could visit.

We want to change this reluctance that men have about being together as men, as brothers in the Lord. As a matter of fact, we’re not above using any means to achieve this end, and that includes the liberal offer of a great breakfast.

Tim Adams (he’s the great cook) and I (Tim doesn’t do articles so this is where I come in) are inviting all of the men in the congregation to a planning breakfast here at the building on Saturday morning at 9:30am, March 2nd. We guarantee a terrific meal, a brief meeting about how to start a power breakfast for men on a regular basis, and a speedy get-a-way- so you can be off onto other things.

Whether you’re young or a senior, new in the Lord or a seasoned disciple, you are invited to come and enjoy the food and fellowship. Who knows? You may like this getting together thing more than you thought.

He Could Have Done More

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:34:29 -0800

Jesus had the potential of doing so much, but He didn’t. He could have cured all the lepers, freed the Jews from Roman domination, stopped the hunger and suffering of the poor - but He didn’t.

His life consisted of simply doing the things the Father sent Him to do. He knew God’s will, and did God’s will, nothing more or less. Perhaps we need this type of discipline in our lives; to know the will of God and have a single-minded devotion to doing it.

Most of us have plans, dreams, ideas, and things that need getting done. But Jesus’ example shows us that regardless of what we want to do, the important thing to accomplish with our lives is God’s will. Our dreams and accomplishments can never replace His will and purpose.

Jesus could have done more but He invested His endless power and ability into, what seemed like, a futile act. All that talent wasted in a humiliating and avoidable death on a Roman cross. He could have done so much more but chose instead to do the Father’s will and in so doing saved mankind.

When we examine what we could be or would like to be doing, let’s pause to consider if we are actually doing God’s will rather than our own. Our life will count, even if we don’t do all we could have done, so long as we do what we should have done in obeying the Lord.

Many Will Call: One Will Be Chosen

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:33:08 -0800

As you know, we are presently looking for a man to serve the Canyon View congregation as Youth and Family Minister. Although many will, in the weeks to come, call about the position, few will actually be interviewed and only one will be chosen.

The reason for the slowness of the process is that not many applicants can demonstrate the qualifications that we desire for this position. In order to help you identify the right person when he comes, here are 3 key requirements that the successful applicant must have.

1. HE MUST FIT OUT “PROFILE.” We want a man between 25-35 years old who is married and has completed his education/training with at least three years of experience in youth work. We are looking for a mature person who has a proven family, educational and ministry background - not a novice in any of these areas.

2. HE MUST BE BIBLE-CENTERED! The basic work of ministers, whether they be “Youth” or otherwise is to teach and apply God’s word. This requires that the applicant know the word and know how to use the word accurately. A good way to determine this is to observe if the applicant bases his answers to Bible related questions on actual scripture references or personal opinion. A good minister will easily and confidently preface his remarks with God’s word, not stories or feelings.

3. HE MUST LOVE THE CHURCH! Our youth minister must love the church, not just this congregation. Our young people need to see and learn how wonderful the Church of Christ is and how to establish and promote New Testament Christianity in the next generation. We want a man who understands our history and can help our youth prepare themselves for church planting and leadership in the future.

Finding the right man is not easy so ask God to direct him to us and pray that we have the wisdom to recognize him when he comes. In the meantime, let’s support the brethren who are doing their best to minister to our youth while we wait.

Spiritual Security

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:26:36 -0800

There has been much talk concerning Social Security that has a lot of folks in a lather. The government is suggesting a variety of ways to save it or make it more viable.

Some groups want to abolish it in favor of private plans, others suggest delaying retirement or having part of the S.S. payments put into private funds. With the bulk of the population rapidly approaching retirement, it's natural that people are feeling a little panicky.

The problem, of course, is the name of the program, not the lack of money. “Social” security implies that society (real people) provide for their own safety. Now there's a scary thought. No wonder everybody is worried, our future is in the shaky hanks of mere mortals with a poor track record.

In addressing this natural concern of people for their personal welfare, Jesus said, “Do not be anxious then, saying „What shall we eat?‟ or "What shall we drink?‟...But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness; and all of these things shall be added to you” Matthew 6:31,33.

God's solution for America in the year 2020 (when S.S. is supposed to crash) is the same as it's always been...search to do God's will and let Him provide each day's needs, one day at a time. Of course, let's invest our money wisely, but realize that without God's blessing there would be no money to invest, no dividends in return, regardless of the plan.

This generation needs to decide into whose hands they will place their future. Social Security may provide basic needs as long as you live; however, spiritual security will provide for all your needs in this life and guarantee eternal life as a tax-free bonus.

In Defense of Martha

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:20:47 -0800

I believe Martha's gotten a bad rap as far as Bible characters go. The most quoted reference about Martha is where Jesus gently admonishes her concerning this good woman's frustration at not receiving help from her sister, Mary, in serving their guests. This story recorded in Luke 10:40-41 has become, for many, the defining image of this woman, a worrier, a person consumed with tasks, and a disciple not attuned to spiritual things like her sister, Mary.

Martha was probably the older of the two because she is always mentioned first when referring to the sisters and Luke says that Martha welcomed Jesus into "her" house - a note identifying her as the woman of that home (a likelihood that her mother was dead and she had charge of the house in caring for her brother, Lazarus, sister, Mary, and possibly her father, Simon (Mark 14:3-9). In addition to this John said that Jesus loved Martha and her sister (John 11:5); the community shared in her sorrow (John 11:19); was the first to approach Jesus concerning her brother (John 11:20); confessed that she believed Jesus was the Messiah (John 11:27); and was at her usual place serving guests when Jesus and the resurrected Lazarus ate at her house (John 12:1-2).

I mention all of this to show that Martha was a valuable and beloved disciple within Jesus' circle of ministry despite her failure to grasp what was truly important at times.

We have many "Martha" types in this congregation. Godly people who serve quietly in so many ways. They prepare and serve food at funerals and keep the building functioning, they teach children, balance the books, visit the sick, greet the visitors, prepare communion, mail our Bibles, lock the doors, send cards, and find the time to organize activities all the while maintaining families and careers. They rarely receive accolades or recognition but without the Martha's, this congregation would sputter to a stop.

So thank you Martha. Thank you for all you do in all your quiet ways. Maybe you get a little stressed at times and miss out on what's important because you're focused on what is urgent; but as the Bible says, "Jesus loved Martha,"...and we do too.

The Christmas Cook

Mon, 05 Dec 2011 21:09:08 -0800

This is my 50th Christmas without my father. I thought of him recently while I browned some meatballs for a spaghetti sauce we were cooking up for guests over the holidays.

This was his recipe. One handed down from his father and passed on to me by my mother years after he passed away. The pungent smell of the garlic and Romano cheese filled the kitchen and flashed back his old ritual of tasting the first batch of sauce with a single meatball in a saucer late at night when the kitchen was a mess and the cooking was over for that day. Funny how smell has a better memory than sight.

My kids are grown now and tease my wife and me because we’re always kissing goodbye– even if it’s just for a quick trip to the shopping center. They don’t know the pain of loss yet. How every separation is a preview of death and how we try to put it off in our own human way with a whispered assurance of love or quick embrace.

Our family is all together this year and I almost ache with joy over the promise of a memorable time of shared love. We’ll eat that old world meal prepared only for special occasions such as this and the aroma will fill the house with a silent yuletide wish for the one who prepared it long ago.

Ten Ways To Become A Better Husband

Thu, 17 Nov 2011 10:52:09 -0800

Recently the men who attended our “Married Men Support Group” were asked to suggest ways that men could improve as husbands. Below is a sampling of some ideas that were brought forth.

Listen to her. Stop doing whatever else you may be doing and look at her and listen. Write things down if you have to for recall.
Show leadership in your family and Christian household.
Reassure her often that she’s your first priority.
Never make fun of her. Never!
Pray for her and yourself. God will always take care of you both.
Help her with housework & kids without being asked.
Be patient when it comes to sexual intimacy.
Talk to her. About anything. Especially if you can muster a feeling about some-thing and gather the courage to express it to her.
Compliment her character, work, and looks on a regular basis.
Take care of your health, hygiene, and attitude as a way of showing your ongoing love.

There were many more excellent suggestions but these give you an idea of the type of discussions these brethren engaged in during our meetings.

There was a suggestion that a “Married Woman Support Group” should be formed to give the sisters a chance to get together. Ladies…? See Mike for info.

Reassurance for New Elders

Thu, 17 Nov 2011 10:50:19 -0800

One of the most common reactions that new elders have at being selected for this position is a feeling of unworthiness. After all, we’re giving a man the responsibility of watching over the eternal souls of hundreds of people. This is quite a responsibility and a certain hesitation and sense of humility is natural.

In order to provide encouragement I believe the Lord has included several ways to reassure the new elder that his selection to this role is according to His will and purpose.

1. The new elder’s own spirit confirms his role.
Paul says, “If any man aspires to the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do” (1Tim.3:1) In other words to want to serve in this way is a good thing and not a sign of pride.

When a man begins thinking that he could serve the church well as an elder he is thinking Godly thoughts pleasing to the Lord and according to His calling.

To aspire to this role is a confirmation that a man’s spirit is in tune with God’s plan for the church.

2. The word of God confirms his role.
An honest desire to serve is commendable but God in His wisdom has also provided the qualifications necessary to serve as an elder so that the man chosen is spiritually capable of exercising this high calling.

Those who meet these qualifications may feel that they still need to grow but through these instructions men can be assured that they have the type of character and maturity that God is seeking for His church leaders.

3. The church confirms his role.
Shepherds are called to serve the sheep and cannot fulfill their ministry unless the sheep are willing to follow. For this reason the church is instructed to choose carefully those who will serve in special roles (Acts 6:3; 1 Tim. 5:22). A man who desires to serve and is approved by the church in light of God’s word can be assured that he is truly suited for this ministry.

There are always moments when leaders in any enterprise may doubt if they are the right person for the job. Thankfully for the role of elder God has provided many ways to confirm one’s calling to service so that our leaders can serve with confidence, assured that God and the church support them in their ministry.

Sacrificial Giving

Thu, 17 Nov 2011 10:49:06 -0800

Have you ever wondered why God required the Jews to give 10% of their wealth as an offering or “tithe” in the Old Testament (Lev. 27:30-32)?

First of all the number “10” in Jewish numerology indicated wholeness or maturity but as far as proportion was concerned, 10% of your wealth represented sacrifice. This was true then as it is today. For example:

3000 years ago if you gave 10% of your flock, harvest or goods to the Lord—it hurt, it was sacrificial.
Today, if your gross household income is $60,000 and you offer the Lord the first $6,000.(10%)-you are truly sacrificing!

The idea is that 10% giving in any age or culture requires sacrifice. Of course in the Old Testament this was a command because God was using the tithe as a teaching tool (Galatians 4:1-7) in order to instruct the people in His ways and will. Since Christ’s sacrifice however, we should know & understand that God forms us spiritually in many ways including sacrificial giving.

Ten percent is no longer a command, it’s a goal! A goal in personal giving to the Lord that demonstrates strong faith; spiritual maturity; confidence in the future; concern for the lost; and devotion to the church, just to name a few. When it comes to reaching this level of giving the question is not, “What will I be missing in material goods if I give sacrificially?”, no, the real question is, “What will I be missing out on spiritually if I don’t give sacrificially?”.

Perhaps one of the reasons why our faith is so weak at times and our spiritual lives so dry may be because we haven’t yet experienced the special joys that come with sacrificial giving. Remember that not everyone can give equally, but we all can give sacrificially. Let’s see if we can make this one of our goals in the coming year.

Back to Bible Class

Thu, 17 Nov 2011 10:47:15 -0800

Sunday, December 5th will mark the beginning of the new quarter for our Bible Class program. The insert included in the last Sunday announcement sheet lists the new classes and their location. We owe a debt of thanks to those brothers and sisters who serve this congregation in the education ministry. Let’s support their efforts in the following ways:

1. BE THERE
The church meets for study, worship, and fellowship. There is no distinction between “necessary” and “unnecessary” parts of the experience. Neglecting study is as serious as neglecting communion.

2. BE WITH SOMEONE WHEN YOU’RE THERE
Bible Class is the best time to have fellowship and to get to know your church family. Take advantage of the time to meet new brothers and sisters and grow in the love of Christ for each other. If you feel “left out,” Bible Class is the best way to find your way “in” to the group.

3. BE HAPPY WHEN YOU’RE THERE
Bible study isn’t suppose to be a chore. Getting up early, preparing the family — these things may be inconvenient but if they’re done to please and serve the Lord they can become sacrifices of joy. Be happy that we’ve been called upon to do so little for the one who’s done so much for us.

Let’s get back to the basics of Christian life and growth, let’s get back to Bible school!

I'd Love To...

Thu, 17 Nov 2011 10:34:01 -0800

Next to the statement, “I love you,” I believe the most encouraging words to hear are, “I’d love to…”.

I was reminded of this a while back when a regular Bible class teacher had to drop out because of work commitments and I had to find a mid-quarter replacement for this class.

Finding Bible school teachers is always a daunting task for the Sunday morning program but a good teacher for a children’s class on a Wednesday night, with one week’s notice...next to impossible!

For this reason when the couple I called for help responded with the words, “We’d love to help,” I remembered how sweet sounding those words really were.

“I love you,” is full of emotion and speaks from the heart but “I’d love to…” is purely an act of the will. It speaks of purpose and the kind of attitude that epitomizes the Christian character that God wants so much to develop in all of us.

In the secular world we exchange our talents and services for money. Attitude is either a bonus or the grease that moves our careers along. In the church, however, most things depend on the good will of every member so attitude is everything.

For this reason the words, “I’d love to…” should be the goal we strive for in our attitude towards serving and helping each other as Christians.

As we enter the busy Thanksgiving/Christmas season there are many events and projects that fill the church's calendar-all needing volunteer help. When that phone rings, remember that the words, “I’d love to…” will signal not only your willingness to serve but also the beautiful spirit of Christ that you will bring to serving this congregation.

Preaching Or Meddling?

Thu, 17 Nov 2011 10:30:39 -0800

The oldest joke about preachers is that when they begin to deal with our true bad habits and sins in their sermons, we say that “they’ve gone from preaching to meddling”.

The implication is that preaching is O.K. so long as it teaches me facts about the persons and history connected to the Bible and religion in general. Many people are of the opinion that preaching is acceptable so long as it affirms my hope that I will go to heaven and the belief that my God is a loving and merciful being.

Preaching becomes “meddling”, however, when the lesson begins poking around in my sinful and worldly life...especially the sins I enjoy and would like to keep a little while longer. And this meddling becomes downright offensive when the preacher actually makes a negative judgment call on my bad behavior or lack of spiritual growth. Then the joke turns ugly and we ask, “Who does he think he is?”

It would do us well to remember during these moments that the preacher has a ministry from God to meddle when the occasion calls for it. Paul says to Titus, a preacher, “Encourage and rebuke with all authority. Do not let anyone despise you”.(Tit. 2:15)

God’s word gives preachers the heavy responsibility of shinning the light of truth on the dark places of sin in every Christian’s life whether they be the youngest convert or the most seasoned leader. When that light finds you, don’t joke about it and don’t get mad at the minister. Rather, thank God that He loves your soul enough to risk your anger and rejection for the chance to purify your soul with the hot light of truth.

Twister Religion

Wed, 19 May 2010 11:54:51 -0700

The recent storms that spawned at least a dozen tornadoes across the state of Oklahoma in the U.S. also sparked a spike in some peoples' faith. I don't doubt the sincerity of folks who were "thankful to God" for being safe through the killer winds but I sometimes wonder where that faith lies when skies are blue and the weather is calm. I suppose that it's human nature to look towards heaven when times get rough and then forget our moment of faith after the storm has passed but this type of "twister faith" has the following consequences:

It insults God. How would you feel if the only time your child called or re-ferred to you was to get him out of trouble? *God is patient with us because we are weak but this type of attitude is an imposition on His grace which adds insult to ingratitude.
It undermines sincere prayer. Who knows when we will truly be in need of prayer for the many trials that come about in everyone's life? *Forgetting God's presence in our lives once we're safe from harm dilutes the sincerity of our faith in Him and thus renders our prayer life for all things meaningless.
It robs us of joy. Prayer guides and strengthens our personal relationship with God.

*It is this relationship that creates peace and contentment in our hearts, a feeling that cannot be produced by the reactionary prayer born of fear. "Twister" religion can get you through a few minutes of danger, but it will never be able to build that spiritual shelter where you can feel safe at all times.

Mike Mazzalongo

24/7

Sat, 05 Dec 2009 07:22:34 -0800

At the beginning of his ministry, Aaron the brother of Moses and head of the priestly family was commanded to maintain the "burnt offering", Lev. 6:8-13. This sacrifice was to remain on the altar every night and all night so that there would always be a sacrificial offering to preserve the bond between God and His people.

To accomplish this in practical terms required strict adherence to a complicated cycle of rituals that put a great stress on both resources and human energy. With time, because of relocation, wars, and apostasy, this command was violated repeatedly, thus proving that a better way was needed.

When the Father sent Christ to offer His precious life as a "once for all"sacrifice for sin (Rom. 6:10), the need for a perpetual sacrifice was provided and the Old Testament preview of things to come was fulfilled. Jesus' sacrifice on the cross now stands before God night and day as the offering for our sins 24/7. What all the planning and effort of a legion of priests could not accomplish so many years ago, God has now established through the cross,not just for a day or a year, but guaranteed until the end of time.

Three Little Devils

Mon, 19 Oct 2009 08:31:56 -0700

The story is told of three junior devils coming before Satan as they prepared to visit earth in order to destroy men's souls. The first one said that he would try to trick men by telling that there is "no heaven". Satan replied that people have a natural hope and that this lie would not work very well.

The next one stepped up and said that he would try to convince people that there is "no hell." The devil responded that this would not work either because every person has a conscience which warns them of hell; you could not fool them for very long. The last demon offered his deception by simply stating that he would whisper "there is no rush" into the ears of all who would listen. The evil one rejoiced because he knew that people love to put things off. Their procrastination in little things would lead them to delay the more important things and cause them to neglect their spiritual lives until it would be too late - delicious plan!

Every Sunday we offer Bible teaching for everyone in the family, from babies to mom and dad. If you have been meaning to attend Bible school on Sunday and mid-week services, now is the time to begin. Don't listen to the little voice saying, "There is no rush, you can do it next time or after such and such an activity is over." That whisper isn't coming from the Lord. Mike

The Discipline of Failure

Mon, 07 Sep 2009 08:28:29 -0700

What do David, the woman at the well, and Peter the Apostle have in
common? They were all failures. David committed adultery and murder; the Samaritan woman failed at marriage five times; and Peter... well just pick anything from empty boasting to denying Jesus to disbelieving the news of Christ's resurrection and you have an idea of his track record.

These people also had something else in common. The Lord managed to use them in mighty ways despite their failures. God called David a man after His own heart and the Samaritan woman was responsible for the conversion of her village. In the end, Peter was the first to preach to the Gentiles and was martyred for his faith and ministry.

There are many who fail. As a matter of fact failure is more common than success. That is why we celebrate it so. But those who fail yet continue to believe in the mercy of God and hope in His Son, Jesus-Christ, have the assurance that their failures are the discipline by which God prepares them for His service, and not the measure of their personal worth.

So cheer up those of you who see the broken line of many failures in life. Just remember what Paul says in I Corinthians 1:26-31 and realize that your failings put into God's hands by faith are the building blocks of future glory:

"²⁶Brothers, think of what you were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth. ²⁷But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. ²⁸He chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things—and the things that are not—to nullify the things that are, ²⁹so that no one may boast before him. ³⁰It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God—that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption. ³¹Therefore, as it is written: "Let him who boasts boast in the Lord."
Mike

No Good Time to Die

Mon, 27 Jul 2009 10:22:17 -0700

Last week a young woman died instantly when a piece of concrete fell on her as she was eating supper with her husband in a downtown restaurant. Last year a young man was killed when a helicopter crashed on him as he was walking down the street from his house to mail a letter. Neither knew it was their time to die.

The woman was celebrating her birthday and the young man was
sending off his application for citizenship. Both were experiencing very happy moments when they were killed by freak accidents whose odds of happening were in the millions to one.

In both cases there was the proper outpouring of grief and sadness that such an abrupt death should happen to people who were experiencing such happy lives just moments before they died. No one mentioned the obvious truth however, that there really is no good time to die. Even elderly people who are ill struggle for one extra moment of life to stave off death if only for a little while longer.

The harsh reality is that death catches all of us by surprise. Whether it's a sudden accident or death from an incurable disease – we never know which will be our "last" breath.

For unbelievers the response to death (sudden or lingering) is to create new safety laws and regulations so the "accidents" don't repeat themselves, or calls for more research money to cure the diseases that cause death. These are noble endeavours but can only delay, not prevent death.

Christians, on the other hand, deal with death by being prepared for its sure arrival. Jesus has promised all those who believe and follow Him that He will "raise them up on the last day." (John 6:44) This is the assurance that even if death cannot be avoided, it will be followed by resurrection and eternal life.

There's no good time to die but every day is a good time to believe and obey Jesus Christ so that even if death catches us by surprise, it won't catch us unprepared.
Mike

The King Who Matters

Mon, 06 Jul 2009 06:51:55 -0700

The "King of Pop," Michael Jackson, died last week. He will be remembered for his music, performance style, and unfortunate allegations of child molestation as well as the grotesque degeneration of his appearance largely due to an overdependence on plastic surgery. His real legacy however will not be any of these things but rather the intensity and personal cost of his fame. Long after the music corporations have turned over a profit from re-selling his music and the lawyers are done picking over his estate for their clients, we will be left to wonder about such dazzling fame and what, if anything, it produced.

For the departed Jackson the white hot fame he experienced from an early age sent him in search of an identity and life that neither surgery nor gluttonous consumerism could satisfy. He was deformed, in debt, and dead at fifty. For the fans who warmed themselves in the glow of his popularity there was a momentary sorrow in the realization that not even stratospheric stardom could deny death when it called. It's so sad that there are no lessons learned here. Despite the hideous thing his life had become, there were any number of his fans who would want the very thing that ultimately destroyed him - unbridled popularity stoked by a voracious media. Fame is a deadly thing. So many compromise their souls in trying to obtain it and the majority who have it never learn to carry its heavy burden. When it comes to fame, I suppose the thing that matters most is what you are famous for. Those who are idolized for such temporal things as performing art or physical feats know intuitively that what they do is not worthy of the recognition they receive. This may be what causes their great distress and internal conflict, at least for those who are self-aware. The rest may just be delusional.

Jesus said we should, "...let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father." Mt. 5:16. Herein lies the right balance between what we do and fame. Being known, even well known, for doing good cannot harm us because God receives the honour (fame) not ourselves. We are inoculated against the dangers of popularity because what we are noticed for is worthy to be seen and known and the adulation that stems from it goes to God who is truly worthy to be praised. In the end the right balance sees everyone getting what they deserve and the only king who matters is God.

A 1000 Choices Along the Way

Fri, 22 May 2009 08:52:34 -0700

There are always choices to make if you want to follow God's way. A thousand little decisions: to hold your tongue, to switch the channel, to make an effort. In the end, our choices become the daily spiritual exercises that shape our Christian character and measure our development, or lack of it. With time they become predictable not only in their presence but in their nature as well. For those along the Way, the choices are always:

1. Difficult
Self-denial, purity, humility, faith are other words for "narrow." The narrow way is difficult, that is why Jesus said that few find it and fewer still travel it.

2. Demanding
Jesus was asked to choose at the worst of times – when He was hungry in the desert and when He was in anguish in the garden. It seems unfair, but the tough choices appear when we are least equipped to deal with them. However, courage is validated on the battlefield not in the barracks. The test of our resolve to follow Christ is confirmed when the choice to remain faithful is demanded of us while we struggle not while we stroll.

3. Defining
God uses man's free will as the tool to create the character of Christ in him. All the choices are one – Are we Christ-like or not?

One feature of heavenly life that is rarely mentioned is the fact that there will no longer be any choices to make because the choices we make here will be fulfilled there. Choose wisely now, eternity is a long time to experience regret.

The 10 Stages of Motherhood

Mon, 11 May 2009 10:01:08 -0700

Every parent looks forward to the day when their child will truly understand what being a parent is all about. In the meantime we can only salute our mothers who seem so amazing when we are finally old enough to appreciate them. With this in mind let's review the 10 stages of motherhood as seen through the eyes of her child:

Stage #1 - 4 years old, "My Mommy can do anything!"
Stage #2 - 8 years old, "My Mom knows a lot! A whole lot!"
Stage #3 - 12 years old, "My Mother doesn't really know quite
everything."
Stage #4 - 14 years old, "Mom doesn't know that, either."
Stage #5 - 16 years old, "My Mother? She's clueless."
Stage #6 - 18 years old, "That old woman?!"
Stage #7 - 25 years old, "Well, she might know a little bit about it!"
Stage #8 - 35 years old, "Before we decide, let's get Mom's opinion."
Stage #9 - 45 years old, "Wonder what Mom thinks about it?"
Stage #10 - 65 years old, "Wish I could talk it over with Mom."

Happy Mother's Day to all!

Becoming a Better Person

Mon, 04 May 2009 08:21:56 -0700

One of my favorite lines in a movie was uttered by Jack Nicholson when his character was challenged by his exasperated girlfriend to give her just one good reason why she should stay with him. He answered, "You make me want to be a better man." She (and the audience) melted at this response and the story had a happy ending.

Of course in real life becoming a better person requires more than simply expressing this desire, it also demands some drastic changes made at both the emotional and spiritual levels.

Emotionally, becoming a truly better person begins by cultivating what the Bible calls "lovingkindness." Lovingkindness is a virtue usually attributed to God's character. Essentially, it is His ability to remain faithful and steady in His love and kindness towards others regardless of their performance or attitude. Lovingkindness, therefore, lowers a person's stress and critical impulse thus making them better.

The goal in lovingkindness is to maintain a steady, faithful, and loving attitude towards others – not just keep them on task, suspect their motives, or seek justice or fairness in our relationships with them. When our sole emotional responsibility is to love others faithfully we not only improve ourselves, we also help others become better.

On a spiritual level nothing helps us to become better persons more than a concerted effort to please God rather than self. This type of spiritual focus blesses us in so many ways. For example:

- Pleasing God first leads to serenity because there is less striving to please others to gain praise and approval. God's approval is what we receive and it is so much more satisying than human approval that tends to be shallow and fickle.

- Pleasing God first also protects us from the negative consequences of sinful behavior which usually follow a determined effort at pleasing ourselves rather than God.

The love of a good woman moved Jack Nicholson's character to change. Hopefully the love of our Savior on the cross will also move us to the same and give our lives a happier ending.
Mike

Jesus Loves Tiger Woods

Sun, 20 Dec 2009 12:46:02 -0800

I prayed for Tiger Woods today. From now on he will be referred to by the media as "disgraced golfer" Tiger Woods… a heavy burden to carry at such a young age, hence my prayer on his behalf. Of course, he deserves the title because one so blessed with talent and advantage should not behave soungraciously towards the family he so publicly claimed he loved.

Now the tawdry attempts to resurrect his reputation will begin. Marketing wizards and image doctors will try to create a rehabilitation scenario that will cast him as a flawed hero, but a hero nonetheless because heroes move product and in the end this is what counts.

Even if this succeeds (and in our society it usually does – i.e. Bill Clinton, Michael Jackson, etc.) there will remain a wounded soul inhabiting the "new" Tiger Woods, whatever form his handlers eventually create. A wounded soul that needs forgiveness, not a make-over!

We often think that the death of Christ on the cross only reaches out to the poor and beaten and broken ones of this world but that offer of forgiveness and restoration is also good for privileged athletes who have fallen from grace as well.

Like I said, I prayed for Tiger today and I asked God to send someone to him with the "Good News" of forgiveness and regeneration in Jesus-Christ. If God forgives him he will then be able to forgive himself and this renewal will give him the kind of peace that no amount of "spin" will produce.
Mike

Christian Worship in 150 AD

Tue, 28 Apr 2009 07:21:58 -0700

Justin Martyr was a Samarian Christian who lived in the second century. He was a Platonist philosopher who was converted to Christianity and became a strong defender of the faith. In one of his works, "Apology of the Christian Religion", written in around 150AD, he describes a typical Christian worship service of that day.

"On that day which is called after the sun, all who live in the cities or in the
country gather together in one place. Then the memoirs of the apostles or
the writings of the prophets are read, as long as time permits. After the
reader has finished, the one presiding gives an address, and urgently
admonishes his hearers to practice all these good things. Then all stand up
together and pray, and as we said before, at the end of the prayer, the bread
and wine-mixed-with-water are brought and the one presiding sends up
prayers and thanksgivings to the best of his ability. The people ascent
saying "Amen," and then takes place the distribution to all attending, of the
things over which the thanksgiving has been spoken, and the deacons bring
a portion to the absent. And those who are prosperous, and who so wish,
give what each thinks fit, and what is collected is deposited with the one
presiding, and he takes care of the orphans and widows, and those who
through sickness or any other cause are in want, and those who are in
prison, and the strangers who are sojourning with us. He, in a word, takes
care of all who are in need."

This was the style and content of Christian worship established by the Apostles and practiced by the early church clearly described by one who witnessed and participated in it, and it is the same style of worship we continue to have today in the church of Christ.
Rest assured therefore, that if Justin Martyr were to visit our assembly this Sunday, he would feel quite at home.
Mike

Present Pain, Future Gain

Mon, 20 Apr 2009 08:42:58 -0700

People of faith…great faith, were those who continued serving God even though they couldn't see the bigger picture. For example, Noah couldn't understand the ultimate results of the great flood and Esther couldn't grasp the longer term implications of saving her people when she did. Joseph, while sitting innocently in jail, couldn't know the future importance of his role in Egypt and Saul never realized that his unfaithfulness would ultimately cost him the throne. The list goes on to include Joseph, Mary's husband, who couldn't know the true significance of his marriage and the Apostles who, during Jesus' ministry, never quite understood the impact their initial decision to follow Jesus would have on the world.
This lack of knowing is still a major component in a person's faith today. God still seeks those who can be faithful now in order to accomplish His will in the future. People who cannot see or understand what God will do but are willing to be faithful nevertheless in their present difficult situations.
Remaining faithful in a difficult marriage, overcoming a constant temptation, or continuing to serve the church in a mundane task may seem like small or unfair things, even difficult now, but we don't know how God will use these in the future.
Imagine how happy Abraham, David, Mary, and all the Christian martyrs will be to meet us – the fruit of their faithfulness and perseverance? And imagine how happy and relieved we will be to find out how God has used what we've done in His service? How relieved to know that because we didn't quit and remained faithful, God has glorified Himself and blessed us in the future.
When tempted to give up, remember that the past shows us that God's reward is always sure, even if it will only be revealed in the future.
MIKE

Drive - Through Religion

Thu, 16 Apr 2009 11:15:34 -0700

I remember reading about a church that met at a drive-in movie lot. People would park, clip on the speakers, and honk to say "Amen." I don't think there's a trend here but this is a good example of the "drive-thru religion" mentality.
Drive-thru religion is for people who don't have the church as a final destination; they're just on their way to somewhere else and picking up some religion for the road.
This weekend is Easter Sunday when the world focuses on the resurrection of Jesus. If there is one thing that God teaches us here, it's that Jesus wasn't just passing through. He didn't simply appear, give a word of encouragement, and leave. From the beginning of the world, His death and resurrection were to be the final destination.
Here's the point: if God made our salvation the focal point of Jesus' life, we should make Jesus the focal point of our lives!
Hopefully the resurrection will remind us that this world is the real drive-thru and when you come to church – you're home!
MM

Lessons for Hard Times

Mon, 06 Apr 2009 10:41:09 -0700

I've lived through several economic recessions, personal upheavals and family
challenges in the last 30 years of marriage and ministry. These experiences
have taught me several key lessons about living through hard times.
Lesson #1 – Always Wait on God
When calamity strikes, the temptation is to do something. Governments have
to have action plans and we're always ready to make something happen when
there is a crisis. But I've learned that the best "first response" to a hard time is
to practice waiting for God's lead.
This doesn't mean we do nothing. It simply means that when we do have to
act, it is in response to and guided by God's lead and not our own.
Lesson #2 – The Lord Always Provides
The great fear in hard times is that we won't have enough. Enough
money, enough strength, enough time, wisdom – whatever! This fear
pushes us to do many foolish and even sinful things at times.
Thankfully, God reminds us over and over again in His Word that He
will always provide whatever we need – in good times or bad. Looking
back over the last three decades of ministry and family life I cannot think
of a single instance where God failed to provide for the church or myself
in every circumstance. I don't see why it should be any different today.
Lesson #3 – It's Always About Faith
People look for reasons to explain the economic collapse so they can
avoid similar chaos in the future.
This, of course, is the best that unbelievers can do when facing crisis –
learn from it so it doesn't happen again. But the child of God gains more
than financial wisdom from such events. He sees God working in his life
to develop a stronger faith and trust in Christ.
The Christian realizes that even if the world is in turmoil, because of
faith he is at peace and nothing, not even this world wide recession that
poses a financial threat to his well being, can take away his hope for
eternal life that rests in Jesus.
Things change, the scope and nature of the hard times that worry us are
different from year to year, but these lessons remain the same for every
generation until He comes.
Mike

The Modern Church

Mon, 23 Mar 2009 08:15:25 -0700

It seems that there are three elements that help identify the "modern" church. One is a focus on music in worship. Orchestras, choirs, even drama with music are a must if a church is to appeal to today's church goer.
Another is the preoccupation with the miraculous. People want to go to a place where God reveals Himself to the congregation through healings, tongues, and a sure vision and knowledge of when the end times are coming.
Of course the modern church would not be complete without the presence of women in leadership roles as pastors and evangelists. This reflects the status of women in the secular world and is usually the final proof that a church is truly a contemporary one keeping up with modern society.
As members of a New Testament churches these changes may seem a little discouraging because we believe that the Bible teaches us to only use vocal praise in public worship (Eph. 5:18-19); the end of miraculous gifts at the close of the Apostolic era (I Cor. 13:8-10); and male spiritual leadership in the church (I Cor. 14:34).
I suppose that because we hold to these positions we cannot be classified as very modern and it may be one reason why many who visit here often don't return. Oh, they love the people and find the congregation warm and friendly, but just not "modern" enough for their needs.
Let's not lose heart because of this. Remember that we've not been called to be modern, or old-fashioned for that matter. Our goal is to be faithful in every generation. When the Lord comes (and no one actually knows when this will be – Mt. 24:42-44) He will not be looking for the most modern church, He'll be looking for the most faithful one.
Mike